Travel In China

Ok heres the situation: i am currently studying as an exchange student in korea for the past 5 months. As the summer semester began, the new foreign exchange students came in to study for a short period of time and then go back to their home countries (about 1.5 months). about a couple of weeks ago, i met a nice girl from china on the plane back from one of our school trips. i really like her and i want to ask here out, but we will only have a few weeks left before we leave back to our home countries, time is so short :(.
When i go back, i will have to study for a school year in order to get my bachelors. i am willing to travel to china to be with her afterwards, however, like i said, i would have to study for a full school year. should i ask her to be in a relationship before we leave? or some time after we go back, since we will be able to have some contact with each other on msn (although limited)?
advice?

I have been studying here in Korea for about 4 months now (i am an american) and recently the summer semester started and the new students came in. long story short, we all took a trip to jeju island here. On the plane trip back, one of the foreign exchange students, a girl from China, happened to be sitting next to me. Needless to say, we talked the whole trip back, even on the bus back to our dorm.
Anyway, i gave her my msn adress and she didnt have msn so she downloaded it just to add me. When we talk to msn she always says that I should come to china so we can teach together, etc. (since we are both studying to be language teachers) she is 24 and im 20 (both our b-days are in the next couple of weeks too). She is always complimenting me.
should i ask her out? the summer semester is only 6 weeks long and i’ve only known her for a few days.
we both go back home after the semester is over and i have to study for another school year in order to get my bachelors to teach, etc.

what i was asking was that, is there any Asian Girls that can teach Japanese or Chinese. and i did not want people to get the wrong ideal, but they did any ways, i posted up another Question but the Yahoo tech people took it off, so now people are getting this crazy *** ideals about me but what ever i really dont car, and this is to finish the Question that i was really trying to ask, because i planed on going to both Japan and China with my sister on some business trip and there was one person teaching me but something ells cam up so shes not able to teach me at the moment, and my complements i was trying to be nice to get some one of Asian background that nos Japanese or Chinese to teach me with out e fending any none Asian girls but it did not go as planed, well and now that U no are there any Asian Girls or Girl that cant teach me Japanese or Chinese. i cant find any one on Myspace or Facebook, i did find to people on Youtube but they dont really be on Youtube at all so its hard to learn it, and i feel more comfortable with a girl teaching me then a guy.

Say, here’s what I heard what happened here…..you are a Chinese man from the countryside who recently met this girl over the internet. You both have been talking every single day for a year and she has made two trips to China to see you. Then one day, you noticed that she’s filed for marriage with someone in her country for benefit purposes, how would you react? Do you think she’s cheating on you?
Regardless of that, she’s been helping you with your plane ticket, shoes and everyday appliances, you would be mad but is it to the point that you would cut all ties with her?

About a month ago she sent me a text. she said she heard I like her and she’s not interested in pursuing anything. She said she hates to be led on and won’t do it to me. I went and talked to her at her apartment (we’re in college). I told her the truth. Listen. I really like you. You’re pretty, smart, funny, motivated and have an amazing personality. we had small talk and i asked her if the not interested is permanent or at the moment. she said she’s not sure. I said ok well I’m probably gonna ask you out next semester. Here’s the deal… school starts in the middle of january. I’m gonna ask her out about a week after we get started, so she’s on schedule. I’m gonna go up to her, with confidence and say. “hey. you wanna hang out on a fri-sat. nite when you’re not busy? I’d like to go play putt-putt and perhaps starbucks. We’ll just go as friends. But it’ll be MY treat. (she’s also going to china in a few days) And I’d love to hear about your trip to china! What do you say? how does this

To try and cut a very long story short, I’ve become good friends at school with a girl from China called Fei (she’s a boarder and is studying at my school in the UK). I’ve always had an interest in Chinese but this became more apparent when I met Fei. Months went passed and I started to get to know here more. A lot of the girls still made fun of her behind her back but I knew that’s because they were ignorant and didn’t understand some of the culture differences. She saw me one day looking through a book on Chinese I had got and she was astounded. She told me she’d never met a white person that has wanted to learn Chinese and she was quite touched that I’d actually taken the time to “get to know” China and learn some Chinese. She then asked me if I wanted to go to Beijing with her in Summer 2010. (Bearing in mind I’m only 15, she’s a year older than me though). I was taken aback and asked if she was serious and she said yes. She said she’d show me all the sights of Beijing, help me learn some more Chinese and I could get a real feel for what it was like and meet her family. Of course I said yes and asked my parents. They were apprehensive at first since cos of my age (I’d be 16 by Summer 2010 and she’d be 17) but my Dad met her one day at a friend’s party and said how polite and sensible she was. Having been to Beijing himself, my Dad eventually said yes since this would be a chance to learn, gain life experience and have a real adventure I wouldn’t forget. My Mum’s still unsure but she’s coming round to the idea. Of course they said I’d have to fund the trip (well my half, ie: my flight and hotel, Fei would pay for herself) and I was fine with that; it gave me something to aim for).
But here comes the big problem. There’s this girl at school called Jane. I suppose we’re friends but she says some really ignorant and stupid things (probably without realising) but I never say anything to her face about it (although other girls do) since she’s good fun but someone you wouldn’t want to do anything at all serious with). In other words, if you say you really have a passion for something (I have a passions for Art, Creative writing and Chinese) then she’ll says she has to. At first you think she’s serious so get excited and talk about it in more depth and then you realise that they’re just really copying you and don’t have any passion and don’t know anything about the things you love.
But the thing is, Fei thinks I get on very well with Jane which is true to a certain extent but if I told Jane what I really thought about her, then she’d never talk to me and I don’t want to make her angry/upset. Fei may also like Jane but I know Jane doesn’t like her too much since she takes the mickey out of her and some of her Chinese customs which I think is so nasty and ignorant. So the major problem: FEI IS GOING TO INVITE JANE TO BEIJING WITH US! :/
I don’t get on with Jane very well and I don’t want her to ruin a trip of a lifetime just because she’s ignorant and has no interest in Chinese culture and would just piss about for the two weeks. The main reason Fei wanted to take me was because she wants to show me real China and also we’d have a bit of fun but we’d do a lot of sight-seeing, not pissing about in the hotel or around the pool for 14 days.
SO WHAT DO I DO? Fei’s in China at the moment for the summer and I really need to tell her what I think about Jane coming but it’s something I’d prefer to do face to face but I’m not gonna see her for another 5 weeks until we go back to school and I’d rather not do it over email. Bearing in mind, I don’t want to tell Fei what Jane thinks of her and I don’t want to talk about Jane behind her back. JANE HAS NOT BEEN INVITED TO BEIJING YET. In other words, Fei hasn’t mentioned it to her at the moment so it’s not too late to “uninvite” her since she doesn’t know about it.
SO WHAT DO I DO ABOUT IT?! I REALLY WANT TO GO TO BEIJING BUT NOT WITH JANE!
I totally understand it’s her trip and it is her decision at the end of the day. It’s just, if she’s only inviting Jane because she thinks we get on well and she doesn’t want me to feel “lonely” and “out of place”, I just want to let her know. If she decides to still let Jane come, then that’s fine. I would probably just tell Jane how it is and that we’re not going to Beijing to piss about because I know that’s what she would do. I’d just say nicely that its a sort of discovery trip and that she’d have to fund her part and let Fei know what she thinks.

how and who do i call to try to get a visa , im going on a trip to china this summer for a month and i need a visa, how do i get one?

China huh? Interesting and intriguing.

Hope!
Can you help me translate English to Thai?
Disneyland: The Happiest Place on Earth. Half a billion visitors can’t be wrong. (Sometimes it seems all at once)
Universal Studios: A theme park that grew out of a studio tour. And Universal City Walk is a fun place to hang out in the evening after your day inside the park.
Hollywood: Hollywood Boulevard is ready for its close-up, thanks to years of urban renewal and renovation. Enjoy the Walk of Fame, Entertainment Museum, Chinese Theatre and more. You can see a lot for free. The Hollywood & Highland complex has lots of shops and restaurants, and the Kodak Theater (home of the Academy Awards). I also like the El Capitan theater, because it has been restored to its former glory.
Rodeo Drive, 90210: Packed with exclusive shops, full of gawkers. They all came to enjoy the excess. Free, unless you intend to buy something.
Venice Beach: Los Angeles kitsch and over-the-top culture at its best. Here you’ll find Muscle Beach, street performers and tacky shops galore. Fun, VERY interesting, but I avoid it after dark, when it gets a little TOO interesting for my taste. And it’s a short bike ride from Santa Monica Pier.

Ok, first, I’ve had a few serious girlfriends, and a few less-than-serious, and after we broke up, I never thought about them again.
Now, a year ago I broke up with a girl that I was with for a year, serious relationship. I was got accepted to a good residency on the West Coast, and she was going to a school on the East Coast, plus she is from China and goes back alot, so it wouldn’t work. We broke up friendly, but clean like we don’t contact each other.
When we were together, it was very passionate but lots of arguments, misunderstandings. Once I was in her room when she answered the phone from a male tour guide from China. I don’t speak Chinese but the tone sounded a little personal so I got mad and left. Also, if I ever talked to an asian girl, she would get jealous. When we broke up, I thought I wouldn’t really mind.
Now I can’t stop thinking about her, everyday. I have had two girlfriends since then, but I can’t stop thinking about her. I don’t talk about it to anyone, but my friends wouldn’t understand (one friend always asked why I was with her, that I had had better looking girlfriends and she was boring or whatever).
I wish I could just forget about her, but I keep getting crazy ideas like to go back to the East Coast to be with her, even if it meant starting a new residency (which would suck), I think if she wanted me to go to China with her right now, I would.
How can I forget about her (move on)? I would try hyponotism or anything! Take massive quantities of SSRIs to kill my libido if it meant I wouldn’t think about her. Or should I try to get back with her, even if it meant a complete change in career plans?